Dear resident,

Christmas should be a time for joy and celebration but this isn’t the case for everyone. Across the UK police forces often see an increase in domestic abuse cases over the festive season and the New Year. 

The abusive behaviour often isn’t just confined to homes and domestic relationships too – violence against women and girls also increases as people go out and have a few drinks as they celebrate the festive season. 

The mixture of people drinking more and possibly facing extra pressure – be it financial or strained relationships - can lead to physical abuse. It can also be a catalyst for psychological abuse with coercive and controlling behaviour creating fear in relationships and homes. 

Domestic abuse comes in many different forms and does not always mean physical violence, it can also be emotional, sexual, financial or psychological abuse. It can also include coercive and controlling behaviour and affects the lives of many people from all different backgrounds regardless of gender, age, race, or religion. 

We are urging people to spot the signs and #ChangeTheStory. 

While we always urge people to come forward and report abuse – we are also encouraging potential abusers to pause and think about their own behaviour, this year. Allowing yourself to lose control can have devastating consequences, for your partner or those on the receiving end of your behaviour – and also yourself. 

Violence, coercive control and abuse are criminal offences and can lead to arrest and a prison sentence. Making a wrong choice could change your life. 

Take a look: https://youtu.be/edDtqKlLtEg?si=LTd4H2t0qH7lboYX 

There are also many support services, as well as the police, that can help you. Take a look at the ones in your local area. 

You should also: 

- Call 999 if you are in danger, threats have been made against you or if a crime is in progress 

- If you need the police but are unable to talk due to your situation, you can dial 999 then press 55 instead of asking for the police. Find out more about silent 999 calls 

- For non-emergencies, webchat with us at https://www.westmidlands.police.uk/ or call 101 

 
You can gain more advice and find out how to report domestic abuse on our website. 

We’re here if you need us. Merry Christmas and a happy new year.