This week is Sexual Abuse and Sexual Violence Awareness Week, an important opportunity to raise awareness of sexual abuse and violence and ensure victims in Dorset are aware of the services available to support them to recover. 

Today, I want to shine a light on an organisation which my Office provides funding for to deliver expert care and support to people during their most vulnerable moments. The Shores is Dorset’s Sexual Assault Referral Centre now run by PHL Group and supports victims of rape and sexual assault in Dorset.

I understand that asking for help and reaching out can be incredibly difficult for victims, which is why I want you to know more about the incredible work The Shores do. They are there for all survivors of sexual assault and sexual violence and you will be treated with compassion and respect. I’d like to introduce their engagement officer Kelly Taylor to tell you more.

“The Shores provides victims of serious sexual violence with a high-quality professional response to their needs, whether this is medical or otherwise. We are here for all survivors – whether you are a woman, man, child or part of the LGBTQ+ community, no matter your age. It is important that people know they can come to us and be treated with absolutely no stigma, for proper aftercare support, individual to each person’s experience.

“It doesn’t matter whether it was 30 years ago or hours ago, we want you to contact us and we can talk through the different options for you. We can help you to make the right decision about your next step, with information and support.

“The message I would give to anyone who has experienced sexual assault is that you have options, and we are here for you. Whether or not you want the police involved, you can still access our services for free 24/7, 365 days a year.

“The focus on choices is very deliberate. When someone has been sexually assaulted or raped, the feeling that you are out of control can be overwhelming. Our team will ensure you are informed about all your choices and that you feel enabled to make them in your best interests. That’s why it is so important for more people to know about us and what we do. 

“The work our team do at The Shores is not just about the forensic; it’s about aftercare in a calm and confidential space, where people have a voice and are listened to, which we believe is vital. So, whether it’s for a forensic examination or a telephone referral, we strive to ensure those who contact us feel respected are treated with dignity and feel validated. The feeling of validation is absolutely key, because there are many occasions when victims do not feel they are believed. You will always be believed at The Shores.

“You do not have to report anything to the police unless you choose to. You are in control of decisions around your own medical care and emotional support. Reaching out is a brave step and we’re here to support our clients in whatever way feels right for them. So, whether it’s just someone to talk to, advice about medical care or information about your options, we’re here for you.

“Our approach is focused on you; we will find the right service to support you and your recovery. Just give us a call and speak to our team. You are not alone.”

Thank you to Kelly for your compassionate message of reassurance for victims. I hope your assurances help more people to seek the expert support The Shores provides. With organisations like these, as well as STARS and Victim Support which both receive funding from my Office, and the work being carried out by Dorset Police, victims are at the centre of our work. I am clear that I want victims to feel confident to come forward and seek the help and support they need – whether that is from the Force through investigation or an organisation like The Shores. 

I want victims to feel their voices are heard. This is why I have committed part of my Police and Crime Plan to ensuring that victims of rape and serious sexual assaults are provided with the care and support they need, but also that all victims have the confidence to report these crimes to the police in the first place. I am determined to ensure this key priority continues to be fulfilled so victims in Dorset can feel supported, cared for and listened to.

David Sidwick

Dorset Police and Crime Commissioner

- The Shores Sexual Assault Referral Centre - 0800 970 9954 (All calls are confidential)

- STARS Dorset - 01202 308855

- Victim Support Dorset - 0300 3030 163