Domestic Abuse - What is it?

Good Morning Resident,

Domestic abuse can affect anyone, regardless of age, gender, background, ethnicity, or relationship status. It often happens behind closed doors, leaving victims feeling isolated, frightened, and unsure where to turn.

Recognising the signs is the first step towards getting help.

What Is Domestic Abuse?

Domestic abuse is any pattern of controlling, coercive, threatening or violent behaviour between people who are personally connected.

It can include:

💥 Physical abuse

🗣️ Verbal abuse and intimidation

💔 Emotional or psychological abuse

💷 Financial abuse, including controlling access to money

📱 Stalking, harassment and monitoring someone's movements or communications

🏠 Coercive and controlling behaviour designed to isolate, frighten or manipulate someone

🚩 Warning Signs

A person may be experiencing domestic abuse if they:

- Seem withdrawn, anxious or fearful around their partner

- Frequently cancel plans or become isolated from friends and family

- Have unexplained injuries or repeated accidents

- Appear to have little control over finances or daily activities

- Receive constant calls, messages or demands from a partner

- Express fear about upsetting someone at home

🤝 How You Can Help

- Listen without judgement.

- Believe what they tell you.

- Encourage them to seek support when they are ready.

- Avoid putting yourself or the victim at risk by confronting the suspected abuser.

- Keep a record of concerning incidents if appropriate.

🚨 When to Contact Police

📞 Call 999 if someone is in immediate danger or a crime is taking place.

📞 If you are experiencing domestic abuse and it is not an emergency, contact 101, report online, or seek support from specialist services.

🤫 If you cannot speak during a 999 call, listen carefully to the operator's questions and use the Silent Solution by pressing 55 when prompted.

💜 Remember

Domestic abuse is never the victim's fault.

Support is available, and nobody should suffer in silence.

Whether you are experiencing abuse yourself, supporting a loved one, or concerned about a neighbour or friend, your actions could help someone access the support and protection they need.

If you're worried about someone, don't ignore the signs. If you're experiencing abuse, help is available.

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